Fat And Fuckin'

Dear Society,

You....you do realize that fat girls fuck, right?

And we often fuck men that you think we don't deserve? You mad?

Like, I need you to realize that we have sex lives - often, really really GREAT sex lives - and that we are not all just laying in the bed, huffing and puffing, doing the missionary position only.  Or always doing doggie style so we can rest on our elbows.  We can bounce like no other and can put ourselves in positions that are AH-MAZE-ING.  I need you to realize that "normal" people want to have casual sex,  intimate relationships, and do nasty-freaky-naughty things with us on a regular basis. I need you to realize that men (and women) make passes at us. Call us beautiful.  Rub our stomachs, outline our stretch marks with their tongues, and hold on to us as if we are the sexiest thing in the world. 

I need you to realize that we cum, too. 

Hard.

I need you to realize that we have our own kinks - many of which don't revolve around being "big" or "large". We like being tied up. We like discipline. We like being restrained (even if it takes a little more rope) We adore handcuffs. And furry tails. And cat of 9 tails. And paddles. And all the quirky little things that others like.

Society, I need you to realize that there are men and women who like this fupa.  Folks who ain't upset about a little bit of gut. Or a lot of gut. 

I need you to understand that just because I'm fat and fucking, that does NOT mean I'm desperate. It doesn't mean that every man who smiles in my direction can whiff my draws, get my number, or experience this greatness that is Fat Girl Sex.  Realize, oh society, that 90% of the DM slides get ignored - especially ones who are trying to just "experience" a fat girl; especially ones from men who dog big girls on their IG and twitter and snapchat timelines; especially from men who make it known that they have a big girl fetish.

  Society, I know you don't care about these words.  You're still going to demoralize women like me; Pornography companies wills till consider us a niche market.  Lingerie companies will still only go up to a size 14, and anything higher than that will cost in the hundreds of dollars.  You'll still see us as undesirable, sexually frustrated, and unwanted.

Now excuse me while I text back or ignore these messages and DMs.